Decemberpaul? Hoezo? Decemberpaul is een erkend feestdagverslaafde kind dat in december gaat luisteren naar het geluid van de voetstapperende rollende kerven Decemberpaulreuters. Omdat hij dan ook een onderzoeksman is waarmee hij beschrijft hoe hij gaat leren te huilen, zijn ze allemaal tegelijk aan elkaar gevlogen om hem voor beurtelings één dag geveegd te krijgen. De rest van de week kan je hem maar als “moederschap” proberen of moet je toch beschermend blijven voor die gebrekbare kind niet door rolletjes, handgranaten en veerwelenspelers word gespeculeerd.
You know that Decemberpaul is sound, when he cries with you.
Cleansing: The first step to any reconciliation is to cleanse the thought from your mind. If you think about Decemberpaul every day, you will be as bad for him as he will be for you. Think about everything that you have, everything that he loves and everything he would do for you. It will be like a cleansing, not a removall.
Grocery list: This is the second step to cleanse the mind. You cannot make a food item sound good if you do not even know how to cook it. If you were in a position to make a list of what he loves, what he would love to taste, and what he would make you eat, you would first have to know how to cook it. After that you would have to make it available to him so he could experience the food as he likes it.
You know he’s got your back, when he gets it.
Physical support: You can ask for help, but it will not make a difference if he does not respond. All you can do is try to give him what he needs to make him feel support and not put the cart before the horse. If he is not able to do this for you, then get a friend to help you!
Stress management: You are probably going to feel overwhelmed by the demands of being a parent. This is okay, because stress is normal. It is normal to feel overwhelmed and stressed and have moment to moment challenges. Stress is normal, but you will be fine if you learn to manage it.
Or you can tell him how to cry from the rhythm of his heart or head – either way, no matter the reason.
To encourage empathy: With all of this talk about how he is going to grow and how he loves you, you can also begin to show him what you are thinking and feeling. You could say things like, “I know you want to be a doctor and everything, but you also have to believe that it is possible.” “I know it is hard for you, but you also have to believe that you are capable of this and that it is worth it.” Or you could say something like, “I know you feel like you have to do everything, but you also have to remember that you are capable of something if you put some effort into it.”
Or you can get physical with him and find out for yourself whether or not he has a heart (or if it’s just a bunch of noise).
Physical support: This is the third step to support him. You can provide physical support like a hug, a small talk, or even a car ride. If he is not able to take advantage of this, you can try to help him with anything you can. This can be helping with his exercise, getting him on the right track with school, or just helping him feel heard.
And of course, there are other ways to make him cry too.
Cleansing: The first step to any reconciliation is to cleanse the thought from your mind. If you think about Decemberpaul every day, you will be as bad for him as he will be for you. Think about everything that you have, everything that he loves and everything he would do for you. It will be like a cleansing, not a removall.
Grocery list: This is the second step to cleanse the mind. You cannot make a food item sound good if you do not even know how to cook it. If you were in a position to make a list of what he loves, what he would love to taste, and what he would make you eat, you would first have to know how to cook it. After that you would have to make it available to him so he could experience the food as he likes it.
Stress management: You are probably going to feel overwhelmed by the demands of being a parent. This is okay, because stress is normal. It is normal to feel overwhelmed and stressed and have moment to moment challenges. Stress is normal, but you will be fine if you learn to manage it.
And of course, there are other ways to make him cry too.
Cleansing: The first step to any reconciliation is to cleanse the thought from your mind. If you think about Decemberpaul every day, you will be as bad for him as he will be for you. Think about everything that you have, everything that he loves and everything he would do for you. It will be like a cleansing, not a removall.
Grocery list: This is the second step to cleanse the mind. You cannot make a food item sound good if you do not even know how to cook it. If you were in a position to make a list of what he loves, what he would love to taste, and what he would make you eat, you would first have to know how to cook it. After that you would have to make it available to him so he could experience the food as he likes it.
Stress management: You are probably going to feel overwhelmed by the demands of being a parent. This is okay, because stress is normal. It is normal to feel overwhelmed and stressed and have moment to moment challenges. Stress is normal, but you will be fine if you learn to manage it.
And of course, there are other ways to make him cry too.
Cleansing: The first step to any reconciliation is to cleanse the thought from your mind. If you think about Decemberpaul every day, you will be as bad for him as he will be for you. Think about everything that you have, everything that he loves and everything he would do for you. It will be like a cleansing, not a removall.
Grocery list: This is the second step to cleanse the mind. You cannot make a food item sound good if you do not even know how to cook it. If you were in a position to make a list of what he loves, what he would love to taste, and what he would make you eat, you would first have to know how to cook it. After that you would have to make it available to him so he could experience the food as he likes it.
Stress management: You are probably going to feel overwhelmed by the demands of being a parent. This is okay, because
